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Legend tells us that the tradition of the bridal shower
originated in Holland when a father refused to give his young daughter a dowry
because she intended to marry a man of lower social class.
He hoped that this would dissuade his daughter and encourage
her to wait for a husband with more money and a higher status in the community.
The couple married, despite the lack of a dowry. They had very little to their
names and were very poor. The townspeople pitched in and "showered" the bride
with gifts of household necessities so they were able to set up their new home.
A tradition grew from the generosity displayed to that young woman that
continued for decades. Over time, the traditional dowry a young woman received
from her family evolved into a bridal shower given by the friends and family of
her village.
Today, it isn't uncommon for a bride to have more than one shower before her
wedding. Bridal showers can be thrown by friends, members of either family,
co-workers, bridesmaids, business associates, or Church groups.
Traditions and Etiquette
Traditionally, bridal showers have always been hosted by the Maid (Matron) of
Honor, or perhaps co-hosted by the bridesmaids. Today however, it is perfectly
acceptable for a close friend, relative, or co-worker of the future bride or her
mother to hold the shower.
Today's showers are generally more relaxed than those of yesteryear. Couples
showers are popular today, as well
as themed showers. Also, showers for brides who are remarrying
are also considered appropriate.
Planning
When creating the guest list for a bridal shower, consider the wishes of
both the bride and groom. They will best advise you concerning parents and step
parents, out of tow guests and other issues.
Find out if there are specific items that they need or prefer,
and if they are registered at a particular store. Mail the invitations at least
3-4 weeks before the intended party date, so guests are more likely to have an
open schedule. Remember that while we offer many styles of cards specifically
intended for bridal showers, most any card can be printed with an appropriate
verse and used.
Email us if you need help selecting your bridal shower invitations or if
you have any other questions. |
